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Subject: I Can't Please Everyone

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n2ops
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05/14/2007 9:32 PM Alert 
Kimmy
Posts:14
Posted:05/05/2006 10:25 AM
This page is for the young and not so young alike. When we are young we try so hard to fit in, have friends, have people like us, heck did I say when we're young. Not much has changed now that I am a little bit older, just the surroundings. It used to be school now it's work and other places. Need help or just want to get it off your chest..that's what I'm here for.

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:05/08/2006 3:03 PM




people say there the perfic macht and every thing gose wrong and im the one that gets yelled at for it. what can i do?????????????????

Kimmy
Posts:14
Posted:05/09/2006 12:56 PM
When you say the perfect match are talking about a special friend? If you have done something that causes the wrong you have to apologize ( believe me, I know it's the hardest thing for me to do) But on the other hand if you have nothing to cause the situation try and reamin calm and ask the person how this is your fault. If they can't come up with a good reason, then obviously it is not your fault and they are simply trying to lay the blame at someone's feet rather then admit that they may be at fault. The other thing to remember is no one is perfect and girls can admit their fault more than males can. If you can give me a little more detail I may be able to help more. In the mean time I will Pray for strength and wisdom for you to deal withthis situation. Kimmy

simplekindofgrrl
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Posted:05/15/2006 3:52 PM


now they want to get married and they are only round my age. im trying to ask why would you at such a young age dont you want to have time doing what ever you want be fore going into that. they didnt care but im doing my best to tell them they arent going to last with all the tramps he has been with.

Kimmy
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Posted:05/17/2006 11:42 AM
First of all, how old are they? And secondly you can't call his last girlfriends tramps? If you used that word with me I would tune you out. How long have they been dating? Is there a particular reason they want to get married so soon? Instead of using the word tramps try telling yourfriend that his past freinds have not so good reputations, this will get her attention beacuse most girls including myself are very conscious of our reps. Also you might want to recommend disease testing to make sure that (1) they are clean (2) some sexual diseases lead to infertility and last some diseases lead to problem births and unhealthy babies. and last but not least some young marriages do work out it depends on the couple. I myself got married when i was 20 and fifteen years later we are still together.

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