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n2ops
Posts:412

05/14/2007 9:57 PM Alert 
love_like_crazy
Posts:38
Posted:03/06/2006 4:50 PM
It happend to me when i was 14! Don't hold back and let it pass over! Share your story and help someone! You can't let who ever it is get away say something!
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liz

"may the Lord bless you in all of your days."

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:03/22/2006 3:18 PM

maybe but you wouldnt tell some one wright away! you could get your self in more trouble by the person thats doing it to you.
i bleame my self all the time for really sad things i wasnt there for. then people tell all kinds of things that hurt me even more and i cant say any thing for my self. people think for me all the time! then people say they want to date me and all that leads to is getting beat form that person. please hlep!!!!!!!

love_like_crazy
Posts:38
Posted:03/22/2006 4:20 PM
ok!listen! don't blame your self! it's not in your control, but, in Gods hands (hence the song he's got the whole wold in his hands). sounds hard to beleive but its true God cares and he's not leaving! when people think 4 you tell them the verse: "you can't help some one if you can't help your self, so don't condem, and think of what you have in yourlife b4 you worry about me!" if someone is beating you say something to someone who can help you (like a counciler, or, God)! if your not ready for dating ask if you can just be friends instead or aquentences(people you say hi to once in a great while)! God can help! i will pray for you!
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liz

"may the Lord bless you in all of your days."

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:03/23/2006 4:41 PM
thanks but thats not how the storys going to end. theres going to be alot more than you think.

love_like_crazy
Posts:38
Posted:03/23/2006 4:47 PM
pray and put your worries in to Gods hart! remeber He's not leaving and He has no off switch!
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liz

"may the Lord bless you in all of your days."

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:03/29/2006 3:10 PM


bot every thing is so easy to put in gods hands. when you live with me life isnt easy to put in gods hands all the time.

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:03/29/2006 3:10 PM


bot every thing is so easy to put in gods hands. when you live with me life isnt easy to put in gods hands all the time.

love_like_crazy
Posts:38
Posted:04/03/2006 3:27 PM
But It is! You just pray and tell God that you want Him to take control of your life! He will be there for you if you ask!Promiss!
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liz

"may the Lord bless you in all of your days."

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:04/03/2006 4:19 PM


he dosent give it to you so easy, you have to work at it so hard. life is never going to be like that theres things that you have to deal with that makes thing easy or hard it depends on the thing that is, your making the confic.

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:04/03/2006 4:19 PM


he dosent give it to you so easy, you have to work at it so hard. life is never going to be like that theres things that you have to deal with that makes thing easy or hard it depends on the thing that is, your making the confic.

love_like_crazy
Posts:38
Posted:04/10/2006 1:48 PM
You should start a youth group or bible study or get with new friends and learn what's good for you in a guy! If He's treating like that He's not for you! Read the Bible under Love life and see what God thinks and He's gonna tell you the same I am! If he is hurting you He's not good! If you stick your relationship in Gods hands He will Work on it! Just give God a Chance, He's a buesy Guy but, He is never to Buesy for His children! (you and me)! He knows your hart far better then any one else in this whole world whitch is why God is best for us in times of need!
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liz

"may the Lord bless you in all of your days."

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:04/10/2006 3:00 PM


how do you now thats alwyas the case? how do you now thats a way that he can show any thing.how do you now that you have to put every thing in gods hands?

n2ops
Posts:204
Posted:04/10/2006 3:17 PM
Here is the discussion outline we use in teen groups:

UPDATE – God’s Roadmap to Marriage

1. What do you wish guys know about gals?
2. What do you wish gals knew about guys?
3. What do gals look for in guys?
4. What do guys look for in gals?
5. List some basic guidelines to dating.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9 God First!
Does he/she love God first.
He should be first in conversation.
No room for competition.
Christian education is from the parents. Is he/she the kind of person you want your child to be?

Proverbs 5:15-23 No Cheating
Sex is powerful, as with fire.
Out of it’s place you get burned.
Don't cheat on your future mate!

Malachi 2:13-16 Til Death Do Us Part
God’s view of divorce.
1+1=1
1-1=1/2

1 Corinthians 6:15-20 No Other Sin Like This One
Flee from sexual immorality!

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 True Love
Your dating relationshup should have these priorities:
1. Brother and sister in Christ.
2. Best of friends.
3. Romantically attracted.

If you skip to three you will get burned!

2 Corinthians 6:14-17 Be Equally Yoked
What about those you are attracted to?

Ephesians 5:22-6:4 The Family
A team under Jesus.
Wife’s requirements. Must be mutual respect under Christ.
Husband’s requirements. Does the guy love the gal like Christ loved the church?
Be able to say to your children “be just like me.”

Galatians 6:7-9 Do Not Give Up
What are you sowing? What is your reputation?
The choices you make now will make or break the lot in life your children have.


simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:04/11/2006 3:16 PM


form what my family siad they think he is ok but they really dont want me to get hurt again.im thinking about this alot more than i thought i would have to with any other guy.

simplekindofgrrl
Posts:82
Posted:04/11/2006 3:16 PM


form what my family siad they think he is ok but they really dont want me to get hurt again.im thinking about this alot more than i thought i would have to with any other guy.

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